CELEBRATE WITH US!

Questions?

We’re so excited to celebrate this special occasion with you! If you’re not familiar with Bat Mitzvah traditions, don’t worry—we’ve got you covered. Below are some frequently asked questions to help you feel comfortable and prepared.

What is a Bat Mitzvah?

A Bat Mitzvah (which means “daughter of the commandment” in Hebrew) is a Jewish coming-of-age ceremony for a girl, typically around the age of 12 or 13. It marks her transition into Jewish adulthood, where she takes on new responsibilities within the Jewish community. During the service, she will read from the Torah (the Jewish holy scroll), lead prayers, and share a personal reflection on her studies and what this milestone means to her.

What should I wear?

Dress as you would for a nice religious service or a semi-formal event. A cocktail dress is a great option for women, while men customarily wear suits. Kids typically go with dresses or a collared shirt and dress pants. Cool sneakers are appreciated by all. Shoulders should be covered while in the sanctuary (a shawl, cardigan, or blazer works perfectly). Some men choose to wear a kippah (a small head covering), but it is optional in a Reform synagogue.

What happens during the service?

The Bat Mitzvah will lead parts of the service, read from the Torah in Hebrew, and give a short speech. The Rabbi and Cantor will also guide the congregation through prayers and songs. If you’re unfamiliar with the service, just follow along in the prayer book. Some prayers are in Hebrew, but translations are provided. You are welcome to participate as much or as little as you feel comfortable.

Will there be a party afterward?

Yes! We will head over to Capital One Hall in Tysons Corner, directly after the service. There will be a bus for Hailey’s friends that are not accompanied by family members to transport them from Rodef Shalom to Capital One Hall.

What times do you recommend for pick up and drop off?

The service will begin promptly at 5:00PM at Rodef Shalom - 4:45 drop off
The party ends at 11:00 PM at Capital One Hall, kids can be picked up at the main entrance.

What about parking?

There is ample parking at the synagogue.

For Capital One Hall -

General Parking for all Capital One Hall events is now located in the Visitor and Associate Parking Garage (1680 Capital One Drive South, Tysons, VA 22102).  This parking facility is located to the left of Capital One Center's C2 Building.  C2 is a short and walkable distance to the front doors and box office of Capital One Hall. Please be advised the walk is outside and not under any covering - be prepared for the weather.